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Ask about these and other physical symptoms that have emerged since the death. <\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"iwithtext\"><div class=\"iwt-icon\"> <i class=\"icon-default-style fa fa-arrow-circle-right accent-color\"><\/i> <\/div><div class=\"iwt-text\"> \n<h4><strong>Ask about cultural and religious practices that affect care<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Some traditions restrict autopsy, organ donation, or the handling of remains; some prescribe mourning periods that affect a patient&#8217;s availability for follow-up. Ask rather than assume, and note what matters in the chart so the patient is not asked to explain it again at every visit. <\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"iwithtext\"><div class=\"iwt-icon\"> <i class=\"icon-default-style fa fa-arrow-circle-right accent-color\"><\/i> <\/div><div class=\"iwt-text\"> \n<h4><strong>Provide written community resources.<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Include mental health providers specializing in bereavement, peer support organizations, and substance use resources. 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The effects of sustained exposure to stress, death, and trauma are not only psychological \u2014 they are physical. Sleep disruption, immune dysfunction, cardiovascular strain, and cumulative emotional fatigue are occupational realities in roles like yours.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Practical steps matter. Getting enough sleep, drinking water, moving your body, and spending time with people you care about are not small things. Reaching out to a mental health professional is not a sign of weakness. These are acts of professional maintenance. 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